What is a nature-loving family to do, when the 4 year old fairy princess has two left feet?
I’ve written a few times, since falling for my lovely Lori, of how keen I am to get my newly acquired step-kidlets out on the trail as much as possible. They adore spending time in nature, so I’m keen to pass on my love of hiking if I can.
Our oldest is pretty tough. There’s only ever been one bushwalking trip where we’ve heard a complaint from him, and that was because we stupidly left the snacks at home and by the time we reached the half-way point of our hike, the poor kid was starving.
The fairy princess, on the other hand, is quite… How do I put this? Delicate? Precious, perhaps?
Don’t get me wrong, in many ways she’s incredibly resilient too. It’s just that she’s not really used to doing a lot of walking, and she’s a little uncoordinated.
On a recent visit to Olinda Falls, we opted to park at the Olinda Falls car park, making the total return walk only 600 metres. During this short walk, our poor little girl managed to stab herself in the leg with one of the many small tree branches that litter the trail; she stumbled and fell no less than eight times; she even managed to fall into Olinda Creek twice.
“I hate this place!” she screamed hysterically, stomping her feet and waving her clenched fists. After a bit of prompting we discovered that this wasn’t so much due to the frustration of falling over, but rather the fear that she would float away. She has an amazing little imagination, but it doesn’t always serve her well.
As adorable (and somewhat amusing) as all of this is, I’m really hoping the wee cherub isn’t ultimately turned off the outside world by these semi-regular misadventures.
Each time she trips, I tell her that it’ll mean she’s less likely to do it next time; that she just needs to remember to lift her feet and watch where she’s putting them and eventually she won’t fall over so much.
Practice makes perfect, as they say.
Do you have your own kidlet with two left feet? Got some tips for how to encourage them? Please let us know by commenting below.
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Oh dear, the poor little girl, she sounds like me on a big night out!
As for your little guy I can fully relate to that. I become very unhappy and grumpy if I go a fair while without food.
Haha me too on both counts. I think I’m actually far grumpier when I’m hangry. 🙂 Cheers for the comment!
It can be hard with kids. I can remember my son talking about having ‘sore legs’ which we always assumed meant that he just didn’t want to walk anymore. I did a certain amount of carrying. On smoother surfaces, heeleys were a hit but not much good for bushwalking
Haha we need to invent 4WD Heeleys! Could be a bit dangerous though, perhaps. Oh well, I figure they’ll get there if we keep introducing them slowly. After publishing this post, we actually did a 2 hour walk in Tassie without a single complaint from either of the kidlets, or a single fall from the little one. We must be getting somewhere.
Thanks for the comment.
Cheers
Neil
I’ve found that kids take time to build up their endurance, just like adults. When my daughter was tired walking in the city, I would make a game of it, alternating between racing her to the next corner, and then letting her ride on my back for a block.
But the main thing is keeping it all fun. Have you seen the Fairy House books (https://www.fairyhouses.com/)? Fairy houses are wonderful miniature houses you build from things you find in nature. Lori can carry her own special bag to collect things for building her own fairy house. Keep us posted on how it goes!
Thanks for the tips, Kathy. I’ll definitely check out the Fairy Houses, although I’m not very keen to encourage the kids to remove things from national parks. By the way, Lori is actually my partner haha, but she seems to quite like the idea of building fairy houses too. 🙂
Cheers
Neil
Btw, just came back from doing some wonderful walking in New Zealand. My daughter (now 15) loves to hike as long as she has a camera in her hands, but my partner … not so much. Maybe that’s a topic for another article.
New Zealand is gorgeous, isn’t it!? I’ve been there twice but didn’t get to do much walking unfortunately. That’s great that your 15 year old is so keen. Pity about your partner. Lori doesn’t mind a bushwalk with the kids, but she’s not 100% sold on the idea of longer ones. I’m sure I’ll have a moan about that in a blog post at some stage soon haha. 🙂
Cheers
Neil