This is not a post about hiking.
You’d think I’d do a heck of a lot of hiking wouldn’t you (you know, being a hiking blogger and all)? But in recent times, not so much.
We obviously get out for some short hikes with the kids, and I’ve done a few day hikes that haven’t made it onto the blog yet. But I haven’t done anything more than a day-hike in over 18 months.
For this, I am sorry, my awesome readers.
You’re here, so you can tell it’s not that my interest in hiking has waned. I’m writing this blog post to explain.
It’s been a big 16 months. I’ve gone from living in a share-house and having lots of time on my hands to living with (and learning to be a step-dad to) two young children. Not to mention that I’ve researched and co-authored a book during that time as well. Life has been hectic and finding my groove has proved a major challenge.
Diet and exercise used to be one of my highest priorities. I could easily go for a run after work, and then spend 3 hours in the kitchen preparing a well-balanced vegetarian feast to get me through the next couple of days. I’d even fit in a couple of hours of freelance work or blogging after that. On the weekends I’d socialise and hike, then still manage to get some more work in. I had no idea just how much that would change when I became a step-dad.
The kidlets and I bonded even more quickly than I could’ve hoped for. We almost instantly felt like a family. We grew closer by the day and, of course, they became my first priority. All the while, diet, exercise, sleep, and finding time and energy to go for a hike were sliding steeply down life’s mountainous priority list. It wasn’t long before my energy levels reached an all-time low.
But I’m slowly getting the hang of things. Finding the rhythm of the day-to-day and finding ways to plan for and fit in time for self-care. Food was an obvious place to start since it’s fuel for everything else. I couldn’t keep up the care that I was putting into my vegetarian diet, so I went back to meat. Past Neil would kill me for saying this, but it’s made a huge difference to energy levels and allowed me to put a bit less time into planning my diet. I’m no nutritionist but I think the next most effective change I’ve made has been adding juices and breakfast smoothies to my routine. What could be easier than just throwing everything into a blender or juicer? With the right ingredients, they can pack a nutritional punch, and they’re quick and easy to make and consume. Best of all, they’re delicious.
I’m getting there. Slowly. If I keep at it, I might even manage to get away for an overnight hike before the cold weather sets in again. I owe it to you guys, and I owe it to myself.
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Wow, Neil, that is a lifestyle change all right. Most of us came to it more gradually!
I’ve been seduced away from the trails and onto two wheels in the last year – took to cycling to work (22K round trip), used that excuse to buy a better bike 😀 and one thing led to another, as in, doing some recreational pootling around the tracks as well… So the walking has been a bit neglected.
I have one thing to report, I did get organised to do the Tanglefoot loop walk (18k) up at Toolangi, and they now have a track cutting across the middle of the loop so that you can walk an 8-9K loop now if the 18K doesn’t suit. It’s a beautiful walk.
Haha yes, it was baptism by fire. 🙂 Had its advantages though I guess, like no screaming infants in the middle of the night.
I think if I was going to be distracted from my hiking, it would be climbing, abseiling, or paddling that would do it. Nice work on the new bike!
That hike sounds lovely. I’ll have to look it up. Thanks for checking in, Helen! 🙂
I can completely relate to this post. It is very difficult making the adjustment to being a parent and finding time to do things that make you healthy and happy. Harry is almost 4 and finally can occupy himself a bit so that’s when I squeeze in my blogging (and when he’s in bed). My diet pre Harry was pretty clean, mostly organic and balanced, but since he was born I often find myself eating too many carbs and too much chocolate! I used to have a smoothie every morning for breakfast, will have to start that habit up again.
The exercise thing was easy when he was little as I’d just put him in the pram or baby carrier and walk. These days it’s much slower going as Harry’s usually on his bike or scooter and it’s hard to get his little legs to ride the 10 Kms I used to walk each day. As for bushwalking, since Harry got too big for the carrier we don’t do walks longer than about 7kms as it’s too much for him. I’m thinking of going on some bigger walks without Harry soon as I’m really missing the challenge of a longer hike.
So between working and parenting it’s all a bit of a juggling act. It sounds like you are working it out Neil. Don’t be too hard on yourself, have a plan and do what you can. Just writing that made me realise I should take my own advice!
Thanks Amanda! Glad I’m not alone. Yes, the smoothie idea was a good one. Not too tricky to start up. I cheat a little bit and buy the frozen fruit. I’m about to start growing wheat-grass to throw in there as well, but that looks like a bit of fun. I’m a bit of a nerd like that. 🙂
Cheers
Neil
Hi Neil,
What a change in lifestyle you’ve made, but obviously worth it to be part of an loving family. It sounds like you are doing an awesome job already at being a step-dad. 🙂
I remember vividly the lack of time available to focus on my diet, my writing and some solitary time. It takes a bit of organising with a young family! It does take some time to adjust.
I would prefer not to eat meat but due to a medical condition I have to eat red meat again for the iron and B vitamins until that stabilises so I can understand your feelings there.
I hope you can get away for an overnight hike. It is important to have some time away. It helps you and those around you. Thanks for sharing your progress. 🙂
Thanks Jane!
I hope I’m doing an awesome job.
You’re right too, me getting out for an overnighter would definitely be good for the whole family in the long run. I should lock it in.
Cheers for the comment! 🙂
Neil